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  • Are Guys on Hookup/Chat Sites Really so Self-Centered?

    Ladies, help me out here (again). Are guys on hookup/chat sites really so self-centered? I've been chatting with some beautiful women on the other, non-forum part of Adulthookup.com. All it seems they want to do is tell me what they will do to me to make me feel good. I ask them directly what do they want from me, I might get a superficial response, but nothing much and then they tell me how hard they want to fuck me. These are women I've chatted with enough to establish that they are real and that they are not some AI bot operating under a fake profile. I do this by asking specific questions and getting specific answers. Ladies, I really want to know what makes you feel good; knowing that is what turns me on. Is that really such a hard question to answer? Or is it that you think the guys are so self-centered they don't really care about you and all they want to know is how you'll make them cum.

    Signed, Perplexed

  • #2

    Yes, I am certain that most guys on hookup chats and sites are really self-centered. Most of my encounters are just looking for a good time but it's all for themselves and does not really care about how they can give us the same satisfaction. Since you asked about what makes us or ME feel good, well, I'd like a man who compliments me, everyone loves being showered with compliments. Even the little things would mean a lot to me, a man who's sensitive like you. At least you're considerate about how we feel. So, thank you!

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    • Huranalrashid
      Huranalrashid commented
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      notpickygirl Thank you. This is the kind of information I crave when I chat with women. Of course I would need to know a lot more about you to give you meaningful compliments that make sense, and perhaps that can happen. But when it comes to the basic sex chat, I want to know what I can do to make YOU feel good; what I can do to YOU to make YOU feel fulfilled. Start telling me that kind of stuff and I'll get so horny I'll need to take a break from whatever I'm doing--if you know what I mean

      What fascinates me about women is for you an orgasm is often as much of a mental experience as it is physical. And that makes each one of you a mystery in your own unique way and I love a mystery. It's a challenge for me to find out the key to your mystery and solve it and I love a challenge. Guys are simple. We're physical and when our dick's are hard our brain capacity seems to diminish. If it's been too long since we've cum, all a woman has to do is look at us and say "Hi," BAM! We cum. Not women, though; you're much more complicated. I've known guys who will stick their heads between a woman's legs, gnaw on her pussy like it's a piece of steak for a couple of minutes, think they've done their part and then say to her "Okay, there ya go, now blow me." And these guys think they're so worldly. I hear their stories and think, "Dude, you are so lucky that there's porn so readily available on the Internet."

      I want to continue this, but already I'm getting horny and I've got work to do. I hope others on the Forum will want to continue this conversation.
      Last edited by Huranalrashid; 10-09-2019, 02:19 PM.

  • #3
    Sadly, yes, it is true that most guys that I've met from hookup and dating chats are really egoistic. I wanted to share this story, well, this guy I've met thinking that he's already the one for me. We got tipsy one night, he took me to his place because it isn't safe for me to go home unless I'm sober. I trusted him, so I let him guide me all the way. But surely he is guiding me all the way to his bedroom, long story short we had sex. If I could remember it was a terrible one because I feel dissatisfied and irritated. Anyway, it would be better if I had sex with a man who is conscious and knows that I'm conscious as well. I will guide him through and we'll get to discover each other as to how we'll satisfy our cravings. That, my friend, is not only sex but it's exploration. As for me, yes, I've been with different guys but only a few of them get to 'explore' me better. And since I've explored them as well, we understand now how to satisfy our future partners. Not because of drunk sex that meant nothing and just lasted for minutes, like, that's it? Wow. I'm into more passionate sex, and I know what or how I wanted it. I know that somehow it is my fault because I've let my guard down and trusted him already. Such a waste. I hope you get me here Huranalrashid.

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    • Huranalrashid
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      Lorane12 I get what you're saying. Your story is why I never get drunk when I'm with a woman I want to make love to. On those occasions I'll serve or order wine or beer (depending on the type of eating establishment) or maybe cocktails. I get drunk with my buddies when I don't have to worry about driving, or when I'm alone and only have to navigate my way from the living room to the bedroom. I can make love while tipsy, or while I'm really, really relaxed from alcohol; but not while I'm drunk. It's the drunk "lover" who gives you a face plant between your legs; you soon start wondering "what's he doing?" and you hear him snoring. That's no fun for anyone. Sober sex is the best sex.

    • BustyBasia
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      It's the drunk "lover" who gives you a face plant between your legs; you soon start wondering "what's he doing?" and you hear him snoring.

      This made me laugh. Does this really happen? I had never really encountered someone so drunk that he really slept while eating my pussy. Anyway, I do not want men to have sex with me when they are drunk as I know that they would not have a hard cock due to the effects of alcohol on the body.

    • Huranalrashid
      Huranalrashid commented
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      BustyBasia I'm glad it made you laugh. I too hope that no women have had this particular experience. I just made it up for comedic effect.
      Last edited by Huranalrashid; 10-14-2019, 04:13 PM.

  • #4
    Generally speaking you are addressing the ladies here to answer what really turns them on so ill just concentrate on this part. I really like a well-groomed man match with a perfect ambrosial scent that suits him, I really love it when he is sweet like kissing you in any part rather than the lips turns me on so much and the way he present himself in front of you like a true gentleman treating you like a princess makes me want to fulfill my desires on him. For me its the way he present himself, sense of humor, hygiene and good manners will certainly lead the way in turning me on

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    • Deanne12
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      Hmmm, well, you are looking for a romantic and erotic man combined in a single person. That is not that bad but where can you find as a man? I mean, men are not actually those types that you would often see on the streets. Still, that is your ideal man and I kinda admire that you are still clinging for some gentleman who is a bit naughty.

    • Huranalrashid
      Huranalrashid commented
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      Deanne12 and fineass12 Ahem! Ahem!
      Last edited by Huranalrashid; 10-14-2019, 04:15 PM.

    • E2daEnd784
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      Deanne12 I disagree with you. I like smelling good and looking good (in terms of my preferred attire) and i take the time out to research the different ways to be intimate besides straight up groping and or making out. I read that a lot of women (not all) like to be kissed on the neck just below the ear. while having seductive things whispered to them getting lost in her eyes while you talk simply listening and being able to share your thoughts or opinion of the topic. also i am single, now i don't think i am close to being the perfect man but i am constantly trying to be a good one.

  • #5
    I believe that most are self-centered. I am not saying all, of course, because I had seen some good men on the forum and on the chat sites. There are men who are very friendly and they are not looking for sex only. They are there just to pass some time and to get away from boredom and to stay relaxed at the moment.
    Now, going back to your query, I am a man who is sensible. That is, he knows what to do both for himself and to the other person. It like saying having a mutual give and take relationship.

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    • grace34
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      Yes, not all men are self-centered but most of them just want to flaunt themselves around dating sites. But most of those types of guys is what I avoid, they just want someone to feed their ego and leave me dissatisfied. I get it, it's not about the looks as long as he has good intentions, And yes, I've dating average-looking men and I had a great time with them. Some guys aren't down for hookups so we're just having a good a talk and we'd meet to grab something to eat. Nothing else happens.

  • #6
    I'd rather call those men conceited and not confident at all. But it's given that most guys are egoistic, they're putting themselves out there on dating sites. It takes a lot of courage to do that since not all people are into dating sites. Anyway, they like being complimented sometimes but oftentimes they assume things. Which I despised, especially if they assume things about me, which turns me off. Like one time, this guy, I told him that my professor and I discussed a serious and personal matter (his depression). I told the guy that after the call, I'd immediately had to go back to him and reply since he chatted with me during the call. Then he said, "Ah, let me guess, did you happen to screw with that professor of yours too?", I got pissed with that insensitive remark. Without explaining, I blocked him immediately. I was being a good friend to my professor, and I thought that that guy I'm talking understand me, but it turns out that he's a prick. I hate insensitive people, I don't know what turns me on these days that's why I'm sharing a hint of what I hate about guys. Some of them like to assume things

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    • #7
      What turns me on? Being on the same frequency with him. The genuine happiness he feels when I'm with him. If I feel that we're on the same connection, then I'd be turned on by that alone. Without anything sexual or naughty to talk about. Especially the conversation when it gets intellectual or deep, I'd be turned on by that.

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      • SharonSkills
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        Well, yeah, there are very few women who are turned on by those kinds of things. But then, those are extremely rare. I do not have friends who fall in that category. Certainly, I am not into that category of women, as well. While I like an intellectual man, I would still go for someone who is naughty and horny. lol.

      • NotAlone
        NotAlone commented
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        Kinda boring but its nice to have a deep discussions on what's out there and be nerdy at times

    • #8
      notpickygirl BustyBasia fineass12 Deanne12 Manthara34 grace34 Kimmy13 ItsyBetsy SharonSkills So, would all of you agree with the lessons I've learned over the course of my adult life: Smart is sexy. Respectful is sexy. Confidence is Sexy. Politeness is sexy. Self-Control is sexy. To my mind anyone who is smart, respectful and confident; someone who is polite and can maintain self-control will know how and, more importantly, when to get nasty. I recently chatted with someone and we had some fun playing out a nasty fantasy. I sent her pictures of my cock including a kinda nasty one after she said she would like to receive them. Afterwards, she said that she is really a quiet family girl. She said one date is not a "free pussy pass," and that she still hopes men have enough common sense to recognize that but that time and again she's been proven wrong. I told her I respect every word she wrote and that I do not take women for granted nor do I make unwarranted presumptions. The lessons of my life have taught me that guys should not try to arrange a "hookup," because that, certainly for the guy, has sexual connotations. I arrange to meet for drinks. Whether that's beer, wine, cocktails, soft drinks, fruit juice, or water I let my guest decide. Perhaps it ends with drinks, or perhaps we have a bite to eat. Perhaps it ends with dinner, perhaps not Rarely do I fuck on the first date; that is such an extremely intimate act. I do, however, engage in heavy, heavy, heavy petting, and any of you ladies care to guess what I LOVE to eat for dessert (especially if it's been trimmed or shaved first)? I'm not adverse to fucking on the first date, but I'll do my damndest to make sure it's what she wants and not that she's just trying to satisfy what she thinks I want.
      Last edited by Huranalrashid; 10-14-2019, 04:38 PM.

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      • Huranalrashid
        Huranalrashid commented
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        AlysaBBy Because of what I'm looking for on this site also explains my reluctance to fuck on the first date. I think it's best for all concerned only to fuck someone you will see and likely fuck again. That is not likely to be the case if I'm only in town for a few days and then will disappear. Occasionally I've met women who haven't been fucked in so long once we get started she wants all that I can offer. If I'm confident that it's what she wants then I'm more than happy to oblige. Otherwise, I'll just make her cum so much over and over again I'll just make her delirious with pleasure fucking her with my hands, licking her, massaging every inch of her, and bringing her to a heightened stage of relaxation. Then I'll let her decide how to make me cum. Yep! Good time had by all.

      • JanejaneBH
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        You are one of the most sensible men that I had seen on this forum. A nice yet a bit horny man. A perfect combination. How I wish I would have a boyfriend who has similar traits as you.

      • Huranalrashid
        Huranalrashid commented
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        JanejaneBH Thank you for the compliment and, to be completely honest, I'm more that just a "bit" horny. This is where the self-control part comes in handy.

    • #9
      Not all guys are self-centered but most are. Anyway, there are many women who are flirty and want to play with those men. It actually depends on what a woman wants to have.

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      • Paloma12
        Paloma12 commented
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        On forums like this particularly woman are finding either a real relationship or lust relationship, we are on the hookup thing and if you elaborate what a woman wants then it really depends on what particular relationship she wants to get involved with
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